Lightning vs Lightning Bug

For many organizations (mine included), November is performance review season. I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea, but I quite enjoy both getting and giving of constructive feedback. So much so that apparently I like writing about how I like performance reviews every November as well.

Today’s post is about specific questions for collecting feedback from stakeholders about a person you’re reviewing. Giving such feedback is uncomfortable for many people; it can feel like tattling or speaking ill of someone behind their back. But as a manager, my perspective is inherently limited (and usually biased). I require input from those who are working with my team day-to-day in order to fairly evaluate them and give them the feedback they need (both growth opportunities and especially praise they may not otherwise hear).

I’ve used a variety of approaches in the past, with mixed success. But I recently formulated a pair of questions in conversation with a career coach that I think can coax out the desired information without making stakeholders have too icky a feeling about giving it. They’re delightfully simple, and can be answered quickly and discreetly via BCC-ed email or even DM:

• What do you appreciate about them?
• What advice would you give them?

Question phrasing matters. I’ll be giving these ones a spin this year, we’ll see how it goes!